another 16th DEC

After the verdict of death penalty in 16th Dec rape case

people seem very relieved. Well, I am not.

Because I know it won't stop from further committing of such crimes.

After every such crime, people come out on the road, do candle march, shout slogans against the culprits, police or system. Followed by huge media coverage, playing blame games, interviewing every single person walking on the road whether or not related with the case in anyways. That seems the most obvious way of showing our rage.

I too feel this rage and I feel myself unsafe going out no matter what hour of the day.

But I don’t think this will help us in anyways to find a permanent solution to this problem.

In my opinion, we should question ourselves first before pointing at anyone/thing else.

What have we done to prevent such crime?

Do we really think that all we need is a change in laws to stop such crimes?

I am afraid changing the law won't change mind set of people walking on the road.

Change has to happen within, at the root level.

Every parent in this Country should ask themselves one question and it is not that whether such a thing could happen to their daughter and so we should restrain her movement BUT if our son could commit such a heinous act against any girl and so should we consider restraining him from walking out of the house freely????

We give all sorts of  preposterous excuses for such crime. Often pointing at back at women victim themselves like they dress provocatively, they go out for parties at night, they work till late hours etc etc. None of them is worthy enough to be able to point towards the actually reason I guess. Also it doesn’t explain why young girl children are being targeted.

Here it seems as if we all are trying to solve a problem without even knowing what the actual problem is.

Let’s stop being hypocrites and face our conscience.

Do we ever bother to question our son about his whereabouts, his friend circle. Watch out for his timings  of going out and coming back home.

Mother knows her child best. Isn’t it her responsibility to not only see to the safety and well being of her daughter  BUT to keep other's daughters safe from his own son.

If men can not behave it is they who should suffer why always women....

Enough is enough

Men have been behaving like mad dogs.

It is high time now to put them under restrain.

It is a bitter truth unfortunately BUT  for most of the crimes against women in our society, women are equally to be blamed. If they haven’t shirk from their responsibilities towards fellow women and not been bias towards their son or grandson, may be condition of women in our society would have been better.

What a shame…. not respecting another women, despite being a woman.

Family is the root of society, women are back bone of family. They are responsible to raise their children. They wish them to be well fed, well educated, well settled BUT do they see to it whether their children grow up to be responsible citizen, a good human being.

Are they doing their bit, honestly?

Unless we can answer such questions mentioned above we have no right to criticize the law or government, system, police or even men because we are part of this problem.

Such crimes will happen..

Women will keep suffering..

They will keep dying..

Only until we stand up for our fellow women and so for ourselves. Because no one else will if not US….